Every person needs a mentor. And that mentor needs a mentor. And that mentor as well–nobody pulls himself up by tugging at his own hair.
Go out and find yourself someone you can rely on for advice and counsel, someone who understands you and whom you can trust and respect. If that person turns you down, insist and persist.
Don’t wait to become a student. Be proactive and make someone into your teacher.
Tzvi Friedman: Chabad.org